My aunt wrote this poem out of grief when her dad passed away. If you are going through a hard time, I hope this will help and encourage you.

There are lessons to learn in the shadow
That can never be learned in the light.
His rod and His staff they will comfort
And guide you through the night.
Be not anxious to get through the valley.
With its weariness and care.
There are lessons to learn in the shadow
For God will be with you there.
There are lessons to learn in the shadow,
That can never be learned in the light.
Restoration begins in the valley.
This is where God turns wrong into right.
There are lessons to learn in the shadow,
Though we long for the morning to break.
As you traverse the darkness remember,
“He knoweth the way that I take!”
There are lessons to learn in the shadow.
Do not pray for an easy time.
Ask God instead to be stronger,
And He will teach you to climb.
Yes, there are lessons to learn in the shadow,
That can never be learned in the light.
When the valley’s dark clouds overtake you,
We walk by faith, not by sight.
So study and learn through the dark times.
When you pass the final test,
The lessons you learned in the shadow,
Will gain you a city of rest
-written by Karen Mester